Long time, no see

Sweet bejezus… It has been a while since my last update. Like many bloggers with babies, I find myself composing posts in my head all the time– but have little spare time to actually write them down. This will be a mixed bag. But that about sums up where I’m at these days.

A few weeks ago, we went in for Chick’s check post dairy elimination. Though he had a bloody diaper or two, it was so very much better.

Rather than the nitwit NP we saw last time, we met with Chick’s pediatrician. I like her tons. (Aside: I’m slightly embarrassed to say that we picked her because she went to my alma mater. At a certain point, choices become a bit arbitrary I suppose. And this seemed like as good a criteria as any.)

Any way, she weighed Chick and he came in at 8.7 pounds. That means he gained about 1.5 oz a day since his last check up. This is good for a term baby, let alone a premie.

With this news, the doctor allowed us to go off the fortifier. So now we’re breastfeeding at every feeding. I only pump two times a day, I suppose to make sure these boobies of mine get emptied. This is a VAST improvement over where we were before. Though I realize Chick will never be exclusively breastfed, I’ve made my peace with that. He gets the nutrition he needs, I get a smidge of my sanity back, and we both get to spend that quality time together. Everybody wins.

Things were going along swimmingly until about two weeks ago when Chick had another bloody diaper. Then another. Then another one that looks vague mucousy. Everyone tells you to be on the look out for “currant jelly stool” and I was convinced I’d found it. This was, obviously, on a Sunday. Obviously. So we schlep Chick into the doctor’s office AGAIN.

To make a long story short, Chick is apparently also allergic to soy. Wouldn’t you know it? I had three things the day before that had soy hidden in them, and something that had sneaky cow milk product in it as well. Now I have to make ev-er-y thing I eat from scratch. It’s a pain in the ass– The doctor we saw said that she admired me– according to her, most moms she knows quit breastfeeding if their kid gets the diary/soy elimination diet prescribed. Fundamentally, I believe that people do what is best for them and their family, so I’m not in a position to judge. I will say that this elimination thing isn’t terrible as much as it is annoying that I have to prepare all my food. There are no hunger quick fixes for me, but this hardly seems like a good enough reason. For me, anyway.

Let’s seeee… what else has happened… My early intervention resource coordinator has been assigned, and I really like her. She also loves Chick, but I can imagine he is easy to love compared to some of the tougher cases she must get. She comes by every week, and does some stealthy tests to see how he is progressing. It’s kind of wild to see Chick through her eyes. I see his development little by little, so the changes he is going through don’t seem too dramatic to me. Since she sees him once a week, she can really note where he is developing. This week, for example, he is just starting to learn that he can suck on his hand to soothe himself. He is learning, and I get a front row seat.

I’ve also officially decided to use all my vacation and sick time in order to stay home with Chick longer. To be honest, this is largely triggered by financial concerns. I had lined up daycare based on his August due date, so I have about a month long gap to fill.

Also… how to put this… Chick is just starting to get interesting. Let’s be honest, newborns are pretty freaking boring. They sleep, crying, eat, pee and poop. Because I basically brought home a Negative 3 week old, Chick has had a longer dormant phase, or what I call the “Meatloaf” phase. He is just starting to smile, show interest in anything other than food, and snuggle. I’d like a little more time with that baby if I could.

Today, Chick went in for his 2 month check up and had his shots. As you can imagine, this wasn’t his favorite. He cried until his tiny little face turned red. Mr. O was there and did the physical restraining. Though I don’t think of myself as a softie by any stretch, I don’t think I could have held his arms down while he cried like that. Very thankful that Mr. O was on the scene. So far he has been a little fussy and not eating as much, but nothing terribly alarming.

Since we’ve gone off the fortified formula regime, Chick has gained some weight, but not as much as he did before. (Not sure how this would have been a surprise really…) Anyway, we’re continuing with our plan of breastfeeding followed by bottle, only to encourage him to take a little more each day. We have a weight check at 3 months, then we’ll re-evaluate.

Okay then. It’s sleep time for me. Thanks for hanging in there with this laundry list of a post. You are real troopers…



  1. g2the4thpower · September 10, 2015

    I was shocked to learn soy is just as allergenic as dairy! Apparently it’s pretty common for issues with both formula and diets of bf’ers. Oh those shots are so heartbreaking!! I found with DD, of I plopped her on my boob right before the shots are administered, she generally would only fuss for a few seconds then would be instantly boob-soothed.

  2. thebarrenlibrarian · September 10, 2015

    God, no soy or dairy? That takes out most of my favorite foods. Ok all of my favorite foods. Also, my doctor called Charlie a rump roast during the newborn phase, so meatloaf sounds about right! you’re not wrong about them getting interesting at the worst time, I.e when we have to go back to work. It’s a huge reason why I quit my job.

  3. My Perfect Breakdown · September 10, 2015

    Wow, you have been busy, not that I’m surprised. 🙂
    I’m glad you’ve got Chick’s diet figured out and that he’s gaining so much weight. I know changing your diet is a pain in the butt, but I’m glad you are doing what’s right for your family! Good on you for making such a big effort!

  4. labmonkeyftw · September 10, 2015

    Oh drat, soy too. It is the more insidious for being snuck into everything packaged. My sister did this diet for about 6 months with her kiddo – I’ll ask her for any tips!
    Good to hear from you, and glad Chick is growing learning smiling, that sounds like a great reason to take time!

    • labmonkeyftw · September 10, 2015

      ok, I sent you an email with some tips from my sister!

  5. Haisla · September 12, 2015

    I’m glad to hear Chick’s health’s been on the way up since you cut out dairy, but the soy is a bit of a curve ball. I’m also glad to hear you’ve found a way to stay at home a little longer with Chick. I hear a lot of new mom’s saying that it gets more interesting when the ‘meatloaf’ phase is over and their babies get more interactive.xxx

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